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What It’s Actually Like To Be in a Military Relationship

What It’s Actually Like To Be in a Military Relationship

People who have never served in the armed forces show support through care packages and other expressions of gratitude. But while displaying “support our troops” signs or saying “thank you for your service” are nice gestures, they don’t convey a depth of understanding of military life.

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How Does Double Proxy Marriage Work?

How does the double proxy marriage work?

If you have been searching the internet for information about military double proxy marriage you probably feel a little skeptical.  Understood!  This is not a process most people have gone through or understand.

The first step is to contact us.  This can be done through our website form, "Request a Free Marriage Kit" or you can call either number listed on our site.  We will send you the appropriate and necessary forms to review with no obligation.  We realize you may still be in the research phase of this process.

If you decide military double proxy marriage is the answer for your circumstances, complete the paperwork and send it in.

It is understood that most parties will not be in the same house, city or even country when completing the documents.  it is acceptable for each party to fill out their own paperwork to send in.  We will create a file when we receive the first packet of paperwork and will email each of you to help guide you to the next step.

This may be the first time you have heard of military proxy marriage and the thought of paying online for something you can't see will sometimes give cause for hesitation.  Again, we understand and want you to be as comfortable with the military double proxy process as possible.  Payment can be made up front, or parties can wait until their paperwork has been received and reviewed before making payment.

Once payment has been received, the processing of documents is fairly rapid.  We guide you through each step by email and let you know when your documents are ready to be reviewed by our attorney.

When the marriage is complete, we send an email of congratulations.  Some parties don't want an unknown wedding date and we are able to accommodate those wishes as well.  In fact, once we receive your paperwork, you can request a specific date for your marriage.

We then return your original marriage license, which we have signed on your behalf, to the Flathead County Clerk of Court's office to obtain two certified copies.  We email a copy to you and then send our the hard copies Priority Mail.

It really is that simple!


Why Proxy Marriage?

"Why don't you just wait?"

"You are getting married online?"

"Is it even legal?"

"It doesn't seem very romantic."

These are common misconceptions of proxy marriage and unless someone has been through the process, it makes sense that there would be great misunderstanding.

While double proxy marriage certainly does not fulfill the dreams of a glamorous wedding day, it does help address some of the more practical needs of active military members.

Deployment can be unexpected and unpredictable.  Several of our customers had been in the midst of planning their wedding when the winds of change swept in and disrupted their dreams.

Double proxy marriage fills a need for couples who have been interrupted from their wedding plans.

Other customers have discovered they are expecting a new little one soon and soon-to-be-daddy receives orders that require him to be separated from his new family.

Double proxy marriage fills a need for new formed families that may need medical benefits while dad is deployed.

We've had customers who are both stationed overseas and while they long to become husband and wife, the rules, regulations, customs and red tape of another country make marriage seem nearly impossible.

Double proxy marriage fills a need for couples who are ready to make a commitment, yet find it difficult in another country.

Some of our customers are active duty U.S. soldiers who have fallen in love overseas.  It may be close to time to return to the states yet they will be leaving their loved one behind.

Double proxy marriage fills a need for couples about to be separated due to geographical residences.

As we mentioned previously, double proxy marriage may not fulfill the wishes of a dream wedding, but it can accommodate some very real and pressing needs.

We are able to help you address the paperwork and business side of your marriage, while you are able to enjoy the benefits and time of being able to plan the wedding of your dreams.

If you are interested in learning more about double proxy marriage, please feel free to contact us at any time.


Same-Sex Marriage Ban Lifted in Montana

Today, history has been made in the State of Montana and the same-sex marriage ban has been lifted!  We have verified that Flathead County will issue Double Proxy Marriage Licenses to same-sex couples!  As we have not encountered this possibility before, we are unaware of the issues that may arise in terms of the military's recognition of the marriage, however, we are willing to help in whatever way we can!

Are you a same-sex military couple who would like to fulfill your dreams of being married?  Double Proxy Marriage is now an option for you!


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Judge Overturns Same-Sex Marriage Ban

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